Resurection Sunday

This is the house that is 3 doors down from the Soks. If you look at the front of the picture you will see shrubs and the walkway that used to lead to their front door. Notice where the house is in the backyard. It was picked up and scattered.


This is the crawl space that Wayne's parents got in to seek safety. They were in their back yard garden when they saw it.

Memories from someone's life now scattered about.

Looks like a little princess lived here.

This was 2 doors down from the Soks.

Next door neighbor's car.

Next door to the Soks.

This a picture of across the street from the Soks.

This is the bunny bread truck that we gained access to in order to remove the contents of the Soks home. Don't ask questions how we got this truck and I'll tell you no lies.

Ironically it was 10 or 11 Easters ago that I was having Easter lunch at the Soks house. We hid eggs in their yard. They made us their famous "Sok spaghetti." I was introduced to the cherry wine that his parents made from the cherry tree in the front yard. They poured it in a shot glass. I was in college then and there was only one thing you did with a shot glass. You shoot it. Apparently you were supposed to sip it. Heathen.

On this Easter, 2009, I was helping them take their belongings from 22 years and box them up. I wish I could tell you how amazing their whole family is, how both their sons are war heroes. They are what you call "good people." Yet on this day, they were just another tornado victim, forced to push their emotions aside and try to figure out what to do, what to leave and what to take, and where to go. Their back yard almost touches the back yard of the mother and infant who were killed in the storm.

When you stand and look at the scene around, you realize in one second how powerful God is. That he created something that could do so much damage, and how he whispered on that day for so many people in Victoria Park to not go home. Had most of the people in that neighborhood been home, they wouldn't have survived, there's no doubt. Had Wayne's parents been 3 doors down, there was no crawl space left.

Living in today's world where we are so used to having anything and everything we want at our fingertips, its sobering just how much can be taken from you and made you to feel almost like a third class citizen. No electricity, no running water, police not allowing you to your home. Having to depend on people you don't even know to help you.

Although the friends who we bumped into yesterday and today don't keep in touch often, its a reminder of how strong friendships once were and are not forgotten easily.

When we got home and unloaded the truck in our garage, I went inside to see the kids. I took great pleasure in putting their pajamas on and rocking them to sleep in their own rooms, in their own beds, listening to soft lullaby music. So thankful that they are my children, and I am their mom, and I get to spend another day with them.

Good Friday, Bad Friday

Wayne, this is your parent's porch

across the street from the Soks

I believe that is someone's kitchen

This is the side of the Soks house

The Sok's house

It all started out as a normal Friday, except Rick was off work and we planned to take the kids to the Discovery Center. We got there about 11:45 and had packed the kids lunches and were going to eat there. When we got upstairs I noticed that the train table that Jacob so loves was gone. We played up there for a bit and then I headed down stairs to see where the train table was. I asked the lady at the front desk as she was getting off the phone, "Where's the train table?" She said it was broken and being fixed. Then she said, ma'am you need to take your children and take cover at the back of the center because a tornado is heading for Murfreesboro."

We went to the back and the kids didn't really know what was going on. All the parents tried to keep everything as normal as possible for them. We fed the kids lunch and that's when the lights went out and I think the storm was hitting. We had no cell service but I was able to make a call to my sister and mom to let them know where we were in case something happened, someone needed to know we weren't home. I was able to call my friend Brandi to ask what was going on b/c we didn't know anything. She was telling me what the news said about the different storms hitting Mboro.

After it went through, a lady from the discovery center said that the storm has passed, there's another one coming so if anyone wants to leave, you need to do it now. Without thinking we grabbed the kids and left and drove home in the loudest hail and rain, and a green sky. The clouds were so scary, it looked like they were dancing. Jacob kept telling me to turn it off b/c the sound was so loud. We made it home and I just broke down and cried when we walked in the door. My brother had just called and that probably freaked him out b/c all I could do was cry. Being in a storm is so different when you have kids who are relying on you to keep them safe, but in a storm like that, you can't ensure safety.

We have several friends who's houses are destroyed. This morning my curiosity got the best of me and we headed out with a video camera and digital camera. Once we got into neighborhoods that had been hit, I didn't have the heart to take pictures of homes where the people are standing in what was their yard yesterday morning and now is a graveyard of their memories. We somehow made it into a neighborhood where my friend's parents live. They were only letting residents and officials in but I guess we made it down a side road. I wanted to check on the Soks to see if they were ok and I couldn't even recognize the streets. The houses were on small lots and when you looked around what once was about 20 houses on this block was now about 10.

Close to this is where the two deaths occurred. A mom and her 9 week old daughter. I am just thankful that is the worst b/c when you look at these houses you would have to wonder how people made it out ok. I can only imagine how scared my friends parents were as the tornado went over there house and ripped part of the outside wall off. You could see straight in their attic. Then 3 houses down, all there was, was a foundation, the shrubs around the house, and that's it. I don't know where their house it. Then the house across the street was literally a pile of 2x4s.

The good thing about all this was the community that showed up to help. There were lots of people handing out food and water. I saw some friends of mine from college who were fraternity brothers of Wayne's. I don't even think they called to see if help was needed. They just knew where Wayne's parents lived and one of them bought a chain saw and headed over there. Amazing spirits we all have when the need arises.

The destruction is so much more devastating when this is the town you live in and know like the back of your hand. These people are neighbors, we go to church with them, we work with them, we are friends with them. They need us more than they ever have before and we need to be there with what ever we can do. It renews my faith in people. I was prepared to drop Rick off and let him help, but they said that they almost had too much help. So we're going to check in with them next week after all the help is gone and everyone goes back to their normal lives.

Obviously these pictures don't do it justice.

Road trip

Rick and I decided to take a mini vacation, just the two of us. He's been needing some down time and let's face it. going on vacation with a 1 yr old and 3 yr old, isn't exactly a vacation. So we needed to pick some place close to Rick's parents since that was who was going to keep them while we were gone. So we picked Atlanta because I told Rick that I had never been there before.

So Wednesday we headed to Cleveland and stayed the night with Rick's parents. Then got up the next morning and headed to Atlanta. On the way there we stopped at furniture stores in Dalton, as we are in the market for bedroom furniture. We finally made it to Atlanta and checked into our room. It was awesome. The Hyatt was about two years old and was very modern. Rick picked the hotel room and I have to say he did a good job.

We didn't want to make a lot of plans. Just kinda wanted to hang out. Good thing because the folks in Atlanta said that's the most rain they've seen in years that week. Go figure. We did make it down to the Varsity. The Varsity is a local restaurant right next to Georgia tech that is known for its chili cheese dogs. I'm not a big fan of chili cheese dogs so I had a burger. It was a burger. Nothing to write home about. But the orange icy with vanilla ice cream, who created that? Genius. Yummo.

Next we went to Ikea and filled our carts yet again

and spent under $100. Love that store.

Later that night we went to dinner at Maggiano's.

Yes, Nashville has one but we never go to West

Nashville and I have always wanted to go. Then

we went to a movie and say I Love You Man. That is up on my top 10 funniest movies ever.

On Saturday we took a tour of the Coke Museum. It was nice, but I have to say that you have to really like Coca Cola to go there. Remember when they changed the formula to coca cola and called it Coke. That lasted 72 days before people were protesting about it. At the end of the tour we got to sample 64 different drinks from around the world. Sounded fun but it made me very sick from drinking too much sugar. I have to say, I like just good old plain coca cola.

Later that night we met up with one of my BFFs from college, Kristie Burton (now Cintron). We went to The Cheesecake Factory and had a great time catching up with our friends. That's when I remembered, Oh yeah, I have been to Atlanta when Dave and Kristie got married so this would be my second trip to Atlanta. We basically talked about our kids the whole time and followed up that conversation in the parking lot by comparing our mini vans. Oh yes we did!

After that we met up with Rick's friend from Cleveland, Shawna, and her husband. It was great for Rick catching up with a friend that he has had since middle school. We stayed out later than we probably have in YEARS. I think we got home at 2:00. That's really late for us.

We got up Sunday morning and headed back to Cleveland to pick up our little munchkins, whom we missed so much. We realized that kids really do put stress on a marriage. Without them for 3 days we were so thoughtful and kind to each other. Where do you want to go eat honey, anywhere you want baby. On the way back home we talked about how we need to get better about working as a team when it comes to the kids. We are starting a new bible study called Growing Kids God's Way and we're hoping that will assist us on getting us on the same page. The other lesson we took from our trip is that we need more alone time together and we are going to try to make this a yearly thing.

Hello Kate

I was introduced to Jon and Kate plus 8 when Maggie came along. A friend of mine suggested that I watch it if I feel overwhelmed with just two. Since then, my mantra has become "if Kate can do it with 8 I can do it with 2!" I love the show and my husband accuses me of being obsessed with it.

My friend Katie entered a contest online to win a chance to get tickets to the Southern Women's Show where Kate would appear and a grand prize winner would get to meet her. Katie and I made an aggreement that if either of us won, we would take the other. Well, Katie won VIP seats to see her, but not the chance to meet her. So we headed down to the Nashville Convention Center 45 minutes before the show like we were supposed to and every seat in the place was filled. Apparently Katie and I aren't the only fans of the show. These people had been camped out all day. There was a miscommunication with the show and there were no seats reserved. We were furious. They told us that they would send the winners a signed copy of the book but sorry, basically. Well, Katie did get to go back stage and meet Kate but she said Kate was in a bad mood so she didn't say anything to her.

Kate came out and answered questions that the audience had. Some questions were

• When the cameras are off do you spank? Yes, she and Jon believe in spanking for certain things. I was disturbed when the audienced cheered. I mean, did that really need applause? "yeah, she beats her kids!"




• Does Jon work outside the home? Jon works from home and is currently working on a spin off of Jon and Kate plus 8.




• Where do you get your clothes? Ann Taylor Loft




• Any new books coming out? Yes, 8 little faces is coming out in a week or so, and one will be released in the fall that has recipes in it. YES!




• Are you going back to work when the kids go to school? No, the kids are starting Jr Kindergarten this year. What is that???

Katie and I got separated during the show and the people who she won the tickets with said that they were going to let the winners only get their books signed by her. I snuck in that line behind Katie and got mine signed too. She is beautiful in person although she had stripper shoes on. Weird. Very tan and skinny. When I got up there to meet her I told her to tell Jon Happy Birthday. My bday is the day before his but in my star stuck-dom I told her we had the same birthday???? His is April Fools day so she said, "oh you're a joke too?" I can't believe I met her today. Thank you Katie (Isaacs not Gosselin)